Tiffany asked:

What does this quote by Andrew Carnegie mean?

""All honor's wounds are self-inflicted.""

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Try looking up: shame-oriented vs. guilt-oriented cultures and values. You might also think about the
differences between inner-directed and outer-directed people and values. All of these can be found at
the library or on the web. Then think about how those relate to your question.

Steven Ravett Brown